Invite a judgemental friend or relative over for dinner. Best way to force you to clean and declutter your space.
Honestly inviting anyone over is motivation for me to clean. In my own space, there’s stuff everywhere, but when someone’s coming my standards for personal cleanliness and organization shoot up dramatically.
Abdication is both quick and brutal.
Use the Poop Method
“If this object had poop on it, would I wash it, or throw it away?”
That explains my hand-me-down family poop knife.
best tip - stop buying shit you don’t need and throw\give shit away you don’t use.
Take a weekend to thoroughly clean your home. At the end, take a mental snapshot of each room and each surface.
Going forward, at the end of each night before bed, reset each space back to that mental snapshot you have of how that space should look when it’s “clean”.
Doing this every day ensures that mess never gets out of hand.
Thinking of it as a “room reset” rather than cleaning” helps my perfectionism from jumping in and having me end up cleaning the baseboards every night.
Buy a small box (should be about the size of a cat; not too big and not too small) you can put in a place where you’ll see it frequently but it’s not in the way.
This box is your “physical inbox”. Any clutter you find or anything in your space that is out of place or doesn’t have a good ‘home’ goes in this box.
Once a week (or more often if you’d like), go through the inbox and resolve or find a new proper home for each item (even if get home is the trash).
I don’t use a box but I do the same thing. I call it a junk pile. If it topples over or I have nothing else to do, then I just start working on the junk pile. That means cleaning it or adding to it. Sure that one spot will never be clean but now at least the rest of the house is.
Moving to another continent with just two suitcases
Take pics of sentimental things of little value. Then throw out the thing and keep the pic
Make an album with the pics. Once that album is full, take a pic of the album and throw it away.
When’s the last time you actually used the item, whether it’s clothing, an appliance, dishes, etc? Some things only have a special purpose (holiday decorations, seasonal clothing), but if the item has no special purpose and you haven’t used it in the past 5 years and holds no sentimental value, you should toss or donate it.
A note on sentimental value: If you are tying sentimental value to EVERYTHING or dozens of things of the same type (I don’t mean a collection, I’m talking like “My dad died 10 years ago and instead of keeping 1 or 2 shirts he really liked, I’m keeping his entire wardrobe in 10 crappy old carboard boxes in my living room and they’re all full of clothes moths now, but I won’t throw them away because they have sentimental value to me” kind of behavior), this is an unhealthy coping mechanism that you should address with yourself or with help from a therapist.
Once you have your stuff narrowed down, find a place for each item, and then that’s where that thing lives. The place they live must be reasonable and logical. Clean clothes live in the closet/dresser, they do not live on the floor, draped across furniture, or in the hamper after you’ve washed/dried them.
Appliances live in one spot on your kitchen counter, or in a cabinet/cupboard. Books live on the bookshelf unless you’re actively reading them. Knick knacks live on the shelf, not the floor or in a box on the floor because you plan to some day put them on the shelf and just haven’t gotten around to it. If you’re not gonna put them on the shelf within the next month, box that shit up and put the box in a closet/garage/attic, etc. Storage is an acceptable place for a thing to live, provided you have the room and you’re not just accumulating crap and storing it like a squirrel with nuts that are then forgotten about a month later.
FOOD GETS STORED IN THE KITCHEN. Do not store the half-eaten box of crackers on your nightstand or on the floor next to the couch. Do you want ants? That’s how you get ants.
The food one is very good.
- Don’t buy crap
- Don’t keep crap (recycle, don’t trash them)
- Stop wishing of buying more crap.
Any impression this incredibly wise list of advice could be based on personal experience (and on multiple failures at following them) would be correct. My life changed and the clutter vanished the day I stopped wanting to buy always more stuff and decided to only keep what was… worth keeping aka actually of any use/importance.
What do I do if most of my clutter is previously purchased crap that I don’t know how to responsibly dispose of? The recycling facilities in my area are awful. I literally have bags/boxes of shit that I feel too bad to throw in the waste.
Occasionally get drunk and break things. When sober throw Away broken things.
Break your project down into bite size goals. With rewards.
Start with cleaning the bathroom. Take a nice long bath after.
Focus on the rubbish in your bedroom, go for a small walk to the variety store. (Consider having a monster drink)
When you come home focus on loose clothing on the floor. Put them in the wash.
Carry on this routine. If you trust yourself not to be too distracted play some old DVDs in the background.
Carry on with this pattern, doesn’t need to be all in the same day.
Did you do the dishes yet?
Break your project down into bite size goals.
Start with cleaning the bathroom.
step one, if I get rid of this will someone else want it? Do I still want it.
get a good box, like an apple box or a fruit box
keep it someplace and put the first thing you LIKE but yeah maybe its just clutter, into it
treat all the things as something that you want, something you like but could live without, trash
once that box fills up, give it to a non-profit charity for donation
once that box fills up, give it to a non-profit charity for donation
Wrong, seal up that box and start on the next box. Stacking the new one on top of the previous box.
