Outliving your own child.
This maneuver is gonna cost you 51 years.
My wife was rushed by ambulance to the area hospital with post-partum complication at about 48 hours.
Then seven days latter our new born was rushed off to the same hospital with suspected meningitis - she spent nearly 2 week there starting in NICU.
Both wife and daughter survived, although both were pretty hard to go through at the time.
If either of them ended for the worse it would have been crushing - if both of these had ended badly I suspect it would be fairly well up there
I’m sorry that you and your family had to experience such frightening times like that. I’m glad that they both pulled through.
Thanks, almost 9 years ago now so not too bad to look back on it
I think that you can make most tragedies worse in a fairly-mechanical fashion. Whatever it is, it’s probably worse if you’re being stung by bees at the same time, for example. So trying to come up with the very worst tragedy seems like it’d be pretty hard. You could list some bad tragedies…
Probably everyone you ever loved dying painfully while you yourself survive but severely crippled.
It sounds flippant and stupid, but like… What could be worse???
Being enslaved probably?
Honestly, there are many examples of tragedies that are quite large scale and intense like what the indigenous of the americas have experienced, or what many Palestinians are currrently experiencing. Another that comes to mind is the colonization of Haiti, and what they have gone through. The greatest widespread purveyor of tragedies is the industriously exploitative evolution of capitalism/colonialism IMO.
Refusing to vaccinate your children and losing one to measles in 2025
https://abc13.com/post/texas-measles-death-parents-child-died-stand-decision-not-vaccinate/16065046/
Is it really a tragedy when you harm yourself or you own family through you own stupidity?
It’s a tragedy for the child, and their friends, but I wouldn’t say it’s a tragedy for the parents.
What about when your brain is capable of the mental gymnastics required to deny any culpability in said preventable tragedy? These morons tend to have that superpower.
I could not tell the greatest (as far as I’m concerned, I would say it would be loosing my spouse but that’s also completely subjective and personal: she is at least as amazing as a human being today as when we first met almost 30 years ago). But I can easily tell you what I think is the most dramatic tragedy, or the one having the most dramatic consequences for oneself as well as for the entire society around them.
It is to not read books. To never feed one’s brains with new and/or opposing thoughts. To waste one’s live trapped in a tiny bubble of certainties.
I wouldn’t say “the worst”, but being abused by your own birthparents are probably in the top 10. Literally breaks your brain. Much depression.
A whole feast of greasy grimy gopher guts, mutilated martian meat, and little baby birdy feet… But you don’t have a spoon. 😔
Hard to imagine anything worse than losing your child.
That heavily depends on the person.
Believing one’s tragedy is the greatest
Being born.
