I’ll start: if they have hobbies it’s a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.

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    11 months ago

    Red flag for me: if a partner judges hobbies based on some arbitrary definition of “creativity”. It is usually red flag for snobby partners.

    Gardening or gaming are as good as painting

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      11 months ago

      I think lacking reading comprehension and arguing in bad faith are worse red flags than the one you’ve painted.

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        You see, this is a good thing. Different red flags save different people from incompatible partners.