I completely stopped caring about 2 years ago, I realized I was never going to do anything with my good look and that I will never get into a relationship in my life, so I just figured out “what’s the point then, I’m already invisible for the women?” And I don’t care about my health tbh…

Since I don’t have kids or my own family I could just disappear and nothing would happen. No, I’m not taking extreme stuff to end my life, I just stopped caring and now eat a lot and drink.

If I’m going to be alone and feeling sad, at least let me eat something good. Still, I’m just 100 KG at 34 years old right now, just skinny fat… For now.

  • Mighty@lemmy.world
    7·
    7 months ago

    I’m sad that you were made to think this way. That you don’t consider yourself important enough to care about yourself. You never need to “look good for others”. Fuck that BS. I’m going to be 40 this year. These last few years I’ve been really experimenting with my looks. Never standing still, never stopping. You’re not a painting to be put in a frame and stand still. You’re a living, feeling being. Take care

    • tomi000@lemmy.world
      5·
      7 months ago

      Exactly. Look good for yourself not for others.

      But even uf you dont care about your looks, working out is really good for physical and mental health

        • tomi000@lemmy.world
          1·
          7 months ago

          Health does not just mean having a long lifespan. It is about enjoying the lifetime you get.

          Life is much more enjoyable with a healthy body and mind.

    • CYB3R@lemm.eeOP
      2·
      7 months ago

      No, I’m not free. And I’m not important in this world, majority isn’t. And I don’t have kids or a wife. If I disappear in the grand scheme of things, nothing really valuable has been lost.

      Is complete bullshit that we’re equal or that we all have the same “value”.

      • andyburke@fedia.io
        3·
        7 months ago

        You got sold on the capitalist rat race, friend. It’s not a competition. There’s so much stuff you could do that you haven’t even considered that’s way better than the stuff you’re thinking on. Stow away on a ship, climb a mountain, build a birdhouse, grow a garden, create a lascivious interpretive dance that you do in the town square until they throw you in the nuthouse now you need to charm the doctors to get out.

        Think outside the box before you spend so much time thinking you’re not good enough for some random criteria.