This is becoming more common in my town. I just either feel like an ass saying I dont have cash, or lying, but I also can’t be giving out 20’s to everyone who asks.
I feel bad for most of them but at the same time I get anxiety walking down the sidewalk and seeing someone up ahead that I know is going to ask me for money. Its not like you can say “oh no, I donate to services that help the needy” because that person isn’t necessarily being helped by that. And ignoring completely feels so mean, plus I tried that one time and the person was screaming at me as i walked away that I ignored them.
I also dont want my city to round them up and send them to prison camps, something they are planning and that I know a lot of people would vote for just to “get rid of them” but im not supporting that at all.
Its tough.
Right, I feel like a total ass ignoring them because its just mean. But I also feel like if youre too friendly they think you’re an easy person to rob as well…and im not a scary looking person. If i was it would help
Homeless people are much more likey to be victims of violence than they are to perpetrate it.
Homeless people are regular people, like you, who sleep on the street. Would YOU rob someone who is being nice to you?
Dorn dehumanize people just because they don’t look, talk or smell like you. They have feelings and a working brain, just like you.
Interestingly the only time I had a homeless guy threatening me he was actually interested in my dog and he may not have actually been intentionally threatening.
When he asked to pet my dog, I said ok but to take it slow and easy because she was a rescue that didn’t trust people. He proceeded to spent like ten minutes saying he wasn’t worried because he had a knife.
I probably should have taken it much more seriously but this was a festival with people and police all over …… and my dog is pretty good at scaring people