This might sound like a silly question, but I’m genuinely asking. I’m 20 and don’t have much dating experience. I’ve been with this man for over a year now, and it’s honestly been the best time of my life so far. I didn’t go looking for this relationship, it just happened. I come from a lower-middle-class background, and he’s well-off. Because of that, we’ve been able to do things I’ve always wanted to do but could never afford before. He also buys me things, even though I never ask. On top of that, my dad has always been awful, and in some ways, my boyfriend feels like the father figure I never had. I do love him, but if I think about it deeply, it gets a little blurry, because it’s a mix of feelings. I’m not a bad person, and I would never want to “use” anyone.