I really like watch porn videos of women saying very humilating and degrading things about me because I love feeling like I’m a loser, Inadequate and worthless.
But I don’t want tell my future wife or girlfriend that I’m into this because it’s so embarrassing. How do I get rid of this kink?
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hold up.
you have a humiliation kink and you’re afraid you’re going to be too humiliated to let your partner know?
bruh, that’s a level of simp I’ve never even thought of. you’re like the simp god. lean into that shit and find you someone that will treat you like the piece of trash you know you are, because you deserve it.
Why would you assume it to be appropriate to attempt humiliating someone, even as a joke, just because you happened to discover they were into consensual practice of the kink? Super fucking weird bro. Would you just tie a random person up without asking them if they mentioned they were into rope bondage?
Jesus Christ, get over yourself.
you want an answer to your question then ask yourself this, did I honestly assume my feeble attempt to chastise a complete degenerate on the internet would result in my expected outcome?
By calling it “[your] expected outcome” I believe you’ve answered your own question there.
Consent is important, dickweed. Cry about it.
I’m not the one whinging on about it like a bitch, am I?
OP asked for advice, not horny role play. You leaning into their kink is icky at best.
and you getting icked out by a response that wasn’t even directed at you is pathetic and screams “snowflake”, what’s your point?
I gave op advice. I told them to find themselves someone who would accept them for who they are. why are you getting so butthurt over a stupid comment on the internet? are you some kind of righteous white knight that feels an injustice has occurred and now you feel a strong sense of responsibility to put me in my place?
Nah the thing you’re trying to describe is just basic social awareness.
I agree with Scranulum, this definitely isn’t an appropriate response. They’re asking for help and advice and you’re throwing it in their face and making a joke of it.
so instead of ignoring it and providing your own opinion you take attention away from OP and chastise me in an attempt to “teach me a lesson”.
yeah, that makes sense.
I gave my opinion. you clearly don’t like it. that’s fine with me. I don’t care much for your opinions either.
Okay, this confirmed you actually are just trying to bait people. I’m a little slow so it went over my head at first.
how am I baiting people? I made a comment, you responded to me and continue to attack me. if anything you’re baiting me.
Find a Domme into as well be with her and be happy ?
Well, it depends. Is it at all appealing when you’re not horny? Or is it only during horny you find it appealing. If the latter, stop watching it. If it’s the former you can’t, it’s part of you and you’re probably going to have to find a way to be okay with it. I’m kind of into it to an extent but I draw the line at things that actually hurt my self-esteem. It could also be it’s only part of it you find appealing.
Edit: It could also just be a fantasy and you’d hate if you actually tried it irl. I think I know how you feel. It’ll be okay regardless.
Edit Skip all of this and just think about the fact that plenty of normal women love the Twilight series… and yet the way women are treated in the book is… om… well I mean the point is it is a FANTASY and to judge it as something else is to fundamentally, seriously misunderstand it. Don’t hurt yourself by refusing to see the nuance to the way you feel you are driven to irrational desires, see the subversion, agency and love that comes from engaging with the parts of yourself that never want to exist as a reality.
Look, the reason you call it is a “kink” is because it is something you find oddly attractive and yet also don’t actually literally want (as in the person actually really meant it to hurt you and didn’t say it as part of an intense roleplay).
We normally call these things “fantasies” in the rest of life when we strip the idea of sexuality and the thing about a fantasy is that it is contained within a bubble of your imagination and consent.
If don’t want your future wife or girlfriend to humilate you, yeah of course… but if she is doing it in a way that she knows turns you on and it is under an umbrella of consent… that is none of the business of the judgemental sides to ourselves no matter how easy it is to make a deragotory joke about it being disgusting or depraved, because it is just sex that isn’t our business at that point.
Remember, the number 1. rule about consentual sex between adults is.
- It is none of your damn business what we do it and how we do it
I’d bet there are plenty of girls out there who can be a great loving partner and also make you feel like a loser when you want it. Instead of hiding your kink and trying to push it down, find a partner who likes you and your kink.
Double down and explore it, I say. Maybe you find out bdsm is your thing. We can’t choose our kinks.
The more common the kink, the more porn of it there is. You’ll be ok. Everyone wants a spanking sometime.
