So I just discovered c/womensstuff, commented in a thread that took my interest and got a somewhat abusive “eff off” comment from a mod with added sarcasm.

I then saw it’s “women only”. This is the only community I know that bans based on a protected identity of a person, e.g. in the UK, it’s illegal to discriminate based on gender, sexuality, religion etc.

How does everyone feel about this for Lemmy communities?

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    11 days ago

    I also think it’s fine that women have spaces that are just for them.

    Interesting? Why? So it becomes an echo chamber? Why not make the group private in that case? How about fake women profiles by men?

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      Why do you feel that you have the automatic right to insert yourself into a conversation that your opinion isn’t wanted in? There’s no issue with the way they’re presenting or moderating their community; they make the rules plain on the sidebar.

      How about fake women profiles by men?

      Again, why do you assume this is an issue? Most men can simply respect that women would like to have a conversation with other women. Why are you not able to just accept this?

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        Why do you feel that you have the automatic right to insert yourself into a conversation that your opinion isn’t wanted in?

        Your opinion isn’t wanted.

        Why are you not able to just accept this?

        Tough titties, kid.

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            10 days ago

            Not only that, but literally directly asked them why immediately beforehand. This is a master class in missing the point.

            I’m an afab something for whom these communities always felt a little iffy (they’re very welcome and it’s lovely to not have to hedge what you say as much, but I always felt they were somewhat unfair), but this comments section has helped me understand why it’s unproblematic to have them.