• Sanctus@lemmy.world
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    23 days ago

    Everything is fetishized by the right, especially the things they claim to hate.

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    23 days ago

    I don’t think it’s widespread or mainstream, but speaking as a femboy, we are fetishized a lot in general. Even normal people often just assume I’m hyperhorny, like the only reason I’m femmodeing is because I want cock. The creepy part about the right-wingers is they see us as “failed males” and specifically get off on the idea of asserting their dominance over us. There’s also a lot of dehumanizing and degradation that I see those types engaging in, beyond the typical “slut” that normal people do. They want to sexually abuse and violate femboys to feel better about their own fragile masculinity.

    I’m very glad I live in a solid blue state and can go out safely, I think if I lived in a right-wing state I wouldn’t feel safe going femmode outside.

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        23 days ago

        Just an effeminate man. I don’t know if sexuality has much to do with it, but I’d say the majority of femboys are gay/bi with a minority being strictly heterosexual. To be real blunt, imagine the exact inverse of a tomboy, and you’re probably pretty close to a femboy. I like some p girly things, I like to wear skirts and dresses, but I also have a masculine side to me.

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    Yes - there is a lot that has been written about the homoeroticism of fascist movements. For years, it’s been a meme that “traps aren’t gay.” Nick Fuentes has sex with submissive puppy boys or something.

    Fascism is libidinal. The Nazis who tortured gay men in concentration camps were also very eager to have sex with them. It goes back to Roman or even Bronze Age sexual mores, where sex is an act of aggression and as long as the “superior” is in the penetrative role, then it is okay.

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    They definitely are, although the most fetishized thing by them is black bulls cucking white men. Seems easy enough to see their criteria is things that flare up their enormous sexual insecurity. Femboys stuff fits that criteria for some of them.

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      23 days ago

      Oh hello again, cute cat profile picture that looks like a dick pic for a millisecond! Hope you are doing well! <3

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    23 days ago

    Yeah for sure lol. It’s kinda the end level of misogyny + toxic competive masculinity + extreme hetero sexual ideation. What else comes from that combo than “forcing weaker men to replace the role of women for your own desires”?

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    They’re about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.

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    I don’t know if I would call it fetishizing, as much as it is denying their own homosexual desires because a lot of right-wingers are sexually repressed homosexuals.

    “It’s not gay if they look like a girl” basically.

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      I think it’s more like, “I’m not gay if a guy sucks my dick, but I’m gay if I suck his.”

      To Republicans, being “gay” and giving pleasure are submissive, non-masculine traits that go hand in hand. It’s why they are so hesitant to go down on a woman, even though it would not be gay for a man to do so.

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    Imagine you’re a horrible misogynist who has the drive to have sex with a woman, but you don’t like the idea of actually having to touch one. If only there was something feminine but not a woman. Something that could understand a man in the way only a man can, but at the same time is not quite as strong and powerful as a man…

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    This is absolutely a real trend suppted by data

    https://lawsuit.org/general-law/republicans-have-an-obsession-with-transgender-pornography/

    https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/pornhub-reports-explosion-searches-transgender-194508061.html

    Conservative areas are more religious, and Christianity uses sexual shame and repression as a control mechanism. A trans attracted Christian is trained to hate them but still think trans people are attractive.

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    The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.

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      Just saw a dude dumping used motor oil on his lawn exclaiming about being proud or “dgaf” about libs, on Reddit. People snooped his profile briefly and found out he was a big fan of showing his butthole and trying to find weird sexual encounters.

      I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

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    It seems to be a common left-winger fantasy that right-wingers are secretly obsessed with gays/trans/femboys/queer/etc sexually. Doesn’t seem to be based on any truth, just your typical left/right wing rubbish.

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    they are more into transporn and gayporn than femboys. they also tend to seek out more extreme porn and deviancies, because of thier repression. pedophelia, beastility is strangely common amongst conservatives.

    the episode of american dad where STAN finds his kink, hes portrayed as an uptight conservative man, but when roger help him release his sexuality, he couldnt stop, he went and more extreme.