• BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.worldOP
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    7 months ago

    Find me someone who has had a good relationship with a borderline. Find me a subreddit that has people with those experiences. There isn’t and that’s because it’s universally a terrible experience.

    • Rakqoi@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 months ago

      Like I mentioned earlier, I am that someone, both as someone with BPD but also because of the healthy relationship I have with another person with BPD.

      However, I see you’re not really going to engage reasonably or in good faith, so I’m not going to argue with you.

    • 42yeah@lemm.ee
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      7 months ago

      Dude, maybe just accept that there are at least one good relationship. maybe the sub does not exist because relationships are usually private and intimate, esp the good ones. There’s no need to double down just because you had a bad one.