I have some friends that go to visit their friends in Mexico from the US very frequently. When they come back in town we meet up to eat. But the entire meal they talk about their experiences and friends there. Usually I only get a couple of words in and then it is back to their plans. I am trying to live in the present and enjoy my life experiences and my life here at home. But they never ask anything and although they are nice people, I feel exhausted and defeated after we get together. Is it time to limit my friendship with them?
Seems the comments here are validating how you feel, and I agree. Just want to add that it might be good to talk to them openly about how you feel, and make an effort to understand how they feel too.
Expressing how you feel is good for you and may be an important opportunity for them to change their behavior. If they respond and actually change, great! If not, maybe time to limit the relationship. Communication is good.