This question came about over a discussion my brother and I had about whether dogs should be on leashes when outside. We both agreed that yes, they should, for several reasons, but that’s not the point.

Let’s use a hypothetical to better illustrate the question. Imagine that there’s a perfume - vanilla, for example - that doesn’t bother you at all (you don’t like nor dislike it), but that is very upsetting to some people, and can even cause some adverse reactions (allergies or something). In this hypothetical, based on the negative effects, you agree that vanilla perfumes should be banned. Currently, however, they are allowed.

You’re walking down the street, and randomly smell someone passing you by and they’re wearing a vanilla perfume.

Would that upset you? Why, or why not?


My answer is yes, without a doubt. Even though the smell itself doesn’t bother me, the fact someone would wear that perfume and not only potentially upset others, but put them in danger, is upsetting.

My brother, however, would say no! He couldn’t explain his reasoning to me.

I know this is a little convoluted, but I hope I got my question across.

  • snooggums@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    If I understand and agree with the reason for being upset, yes.

    Like I agree with banning peanuts on airlines because of allergy issues and think people who are upset about that are wrong so their being upset doesn’t impact me at all. Although I am not able to have an abortion, seeing people being upset that their rights are being denied does make me upset as well.

    Then there are tons of things I either can’t relate to or understand and I don’t really care either way. There are lots of things I think people should choose to do voluntarily, but don’t want it to be required. I don’t get upset when I see people not do those things, even though they really should.

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      8 days ago

      Wait, I’m confused about the peanuts thing.

      How would people who are allergic to peanuts have a reaction, just because someone next to them is eating peanuts?

      I thought to have a reaction, YOU have to eat the peanut?

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        8 days ago

        Nope. Some people just need to be in the same room (especially one with limited ventilation) and it could set them off. Everybody’s reactions are different.

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            8 days ago

            Given that the general population doesn’t even know how allergies work half the time, it makes even more sense to ban peanuts on flights