Let me preface this by saying I am a man, and smoked a little too much, so I’m sitting here thinking… what is or was the original purpose of a bra? Weight support? Vanity? Covering the nips so people’s eyes met your eyes and you can have a normal conversation? Like what’s it all about?

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    It’s not a choice they are making

    It is if they’re friggin’ adults. Despite the media, we’re not supposed to be just led around by our penis’; unable to avoid being distracted by bewbs.

    That’s a cop out that guys use as an excuse to not evolve.

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      5 months ago

      Disagree, and you see the same thing in women when there is an attractive guy around.

      This political correct bullshit trying to make people think it’s wrong to be attracted to someone is just ridiculous. :)

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        No one at any point said not to be attracted to that person. But that doesn’t mean people (men or women) should be drooling rutting animals about it.

        In the adult world that (most of us) should have left behind after our bar-hopping twenties, finding someone attractive can be done without eye-fucking them like a creep.

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          I can also play that game. Not at any point did I say to be drooling rotting animals. You are the one using those word words along with words like eye-fucking…

          I think you have a twisted view of sexuality my man.