• authenticity -> real and genuine

  • autonomy -> seperate individual (not enmeshed)

  • curiosity -> growth mindset and learning constantly

  • growth -> improving functioning and increased awareness of change and adapting to new circumstances

  • peace -> absence of conflict and abnegation of other people’s drama/entitlements

  • pleasure -> enjoying or benefitting from the actions I take and consequences of those I maintain relationships with

  • respect -> genuine care for recognizing and upholding other’s needs where it is safe and not incompatible with your own

  • reciprocity -> balanced approach to give/take and being mutually-attentive to signs of imbalance

  • safety -> avoiding things, people, places, situations that hurt you or cause you to be unable to enforce the protections you need to accomodate yourself in the context

  • stabillity -> expectation of consistency and balance and sustainabillity in one’s relationship with anything/anyone.

These are sort of a rough outline of mine, how about yours Lemmings? Mine aren’t exhaustive but these are the core simplest profile I could break down. Feel free to steal anything and add to your collection ;)

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.social
    10·
    9 months ago

    Love others as much as I love myself.

    Action is better than reaction.

    Produce more than I consume.

    Avoid violence against other people, all types of violence: physical, economic, emotional, social.

    Take care of the environment.

    • cheese_greater@lemmy.worldOP
      2·
      9 months ago

      So (correct me if im off base anywhere)

      love others

      equality/fairness + compassion

      action is better than reaction

      autonomy (doing this because you need them done and not from external influence or coercion)

      produce more than consumer

      contribution + reciprocity (kinda conflates with equality and fairness

      violence against others

      reciprocity and justice

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.social
        1·
        9 months ago

        The only one you’re off on is action / reaction. That’s about doing what I ethically decide to do rather than obeying the desires of my body or my brain.

        • cheese_greater@lemmy.worldOP
          2·
          9 months ago

          autonomy (doing this because you need them done and not from external influence or coercion)

          Your example is seemingly compatible with the description I gave, autonomy means someone/thing isn’t arbitrarily pulling your strings and unduly influencing your outputs, I wasn’t pitting your ethics against your needs. I would argue that your ethics are needs in a sense altho I might not be able to necesarily vigorously defend that on a technical level for now

          Autonomy is basically are you an agent or principal when it comes to your life and your abillity to control the things that belong to you