• cally [he/they]@pawb.social
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        1 month ago

        i dont understand, please explain further. if blahaj mods have ignored misandry, that would be a bad thing. hate is generally regarded as bad, and misandry is hatred of men. therefore, misandry should be generally regarded as bad.

        • blind3rdeye@lemm.ee
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          1 month ago

          That’s true on face value. The issue is that accusations of misandry are almost always unfounded, and only made as a way to deflect and to attack women. So when people start talking about misandry, that’s generally a red flag.

          It’s similar to how “all lives matter” is definitely a true and good value - but yet it is almost always said as a way to divert support away from vulnerable groups. So although the literal meaning is good, it is fair to assume that people saying it do not have good intentions.

        • irelephant [he/him]🍭@lemm.ee
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          1 month ago

          You are right, but what he is calling misandry is not misandry, and so many people like him think misandry is the bigger problem now.