How does anyone accept executives making 100x or more the salary of everyone else?

Or youtubers, or twitch streamers making bank?

are you sharing a server solely to play with friends?

You could consider using something like zerotier to create a private network

Pro nazi content

Is there are non pro nazi content left on xitter?

Depends on the media. Some have no teeth at all

why is a cat in your lap an absurd luxury?

I guess in the same vein, my dogs sitting in my lap

You trippin

wonderful, thanks

Ive been saying “search online” instead

I havent used kodi in a long time, since swapping to jellyfin. I personally found kodi would always buffer sometimes, far more than it should ever need to. With jellyfin, same server, no buffer

You aren’t broken. It sounds like a broken man raised you.

I grew up without a father; no positive male influence. It took me a long time to reach a point where I could accept it wasn’t me that was broken, it was the negative thought cycle I was habitually stuck in.

Taking a step back and seeing the good in the world, the small moments, for what they are (which I think you are doing?) Rather than viewing positive moments as a reflection of my own negativity, I am learning to view these positive moments as positive. Realisations of what I didn’t have but knowing I am living my life better than the ones that came before me.

A deeply personal anecdote - I am an alcoholic. I’ve been in AA for a while now, and have been sober for that time. I’ve grown and moved on from needing alcohol to feel normal.

My fathers side of the family, including him when he was alive, are unrepentant alcoholics. I don’t feel bitter or hateful anymore - instead I see it as being the only one in that family tree to actually break out of that cycle.

I have needed to spend a lot of time in therapy to help me reach this point.

Best of luck - you aren’t broken. just hurt

You dont need to add an instance, unless you mean one instance which is defederated from another?

When you go on lemmy, web UI or other, and you can choose to see “local only” or “all”. All being every other federated instances

for example - from voyager app

Happy to be corrected but I think code server doesn’t use the exact vscode build from microsoft

https://coder.com/docs/code-server/FAQ#why-cant-code-server-use-microsofts-extension-marketplace

And I think the trackers you are (rightly) concerned about aren’t in code server but they have their own equivalent. You can disable the telemetry though

https://coder.com/docs/code-server/FAQ#how-do-i-disable-telemetry

Thats what I was thinking it was - the book of coupons being effectively the “bill” for each month

What about outdorsed?

isnt that coupon book just an alternative method of payment? like a cheque

Brush and floss

Missed “itll be different this time”

Don’t ever text an ex while drunk.

Thought: “I want to text my ex”

1. Is it past 8pm? Do not text.
2. Are you drunk? Do not text.
3. Jack off, then consider again if you still want to text
4. Did you break up with them, leaving mixed feelings? Do not text, you will hurt them
5. Did they break up with you? Do not text. You will hurt yourself.
6. Was it a mutual break up? Then why do you want to hook up? Someone will get hurt.

Unless you were previously just a fling/FWB, hooking up randomly with a long term ex is the pathway to pain and hurt, for one or both of you. If one of you is still healing, you will just reopen that wound.

Do not drunk text your ex for a hook up.

are you 12?

The “NA” word is nazi apparently, fyi to everyone else confused