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Cake day: October 3rd, 2023

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  • I used to be an incel, but probably not in the way you’d think. I mean it in the original use of the term, that is, I was a queer kid in a small town and there was not a single person in town I was attracted to who was also attracted to me.

    I moved to a big city, and things got a bit better but I still had issues in meeting new people with meaningful connections. I expected to just stumble upon the perfect partner that loved me exactly as I was, even though I hated myself.

    It wasn’t until someone basically slapped me in the face with the question, “Well, would you want to date YOU?” that it started to make sense. I was spending so much time looking for “the perfect partner” that I forgot to work on myself to become the perfect partner FOR that perfect partner. Once I stopped “looking” for them and instead started working on making myself a better person that things started falling into place.

    The only person you have to live with your entire life is yourself, so make sure you love yourself first and people will be attracted to that. No one wants to be with someone who hates themselves and everyone around them.










  • Reposting this from one of last times she did something insanely TERF-y. (2 months ago) It really feels like she’s desperately trying to convince herself.

    It’s sad that she’s likely repressing a LOT of gender dysphoria, but just doubles down on the bigotry and hate. Fuck JK Umbridge.

    All direct quotes:

    I believe I could have been persuaded to turn myself into the son my father had openly said he’d have preferred.

    As I didn’t have a realistic possibility of becoming a man back in the 1980s, it had to be books and music that got me through.

    I remember how mentally sexless I felt in youth.

    Fortunately for me, I found my own sense of otherness, and my ambivalence about being a woman…