The whole point is to make the people on the team talk with each other "hey I’ll need to talk with you maybe after the daily because X"and that’s it.

Can’t this be accomplished by people using your company’s messaging system (hopefully not teams). You shouldn’t have to have meetings to force collaboration.

I am all for being up to date with what your team is doing, but there is no way that every member of the team gives a meaningful update in every standup.