• morphballganon@lemmynsfw.com
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    15 days ago

    Couldn’t possibly be that she’s got better uses of her energy than to engage all the pushy guys that text her all the time amirite

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      15 days ago

      If said guy is asking about what she does for work, that means they don’t know each other very well.

      Just tell them you’re not interested or ghost them if you don’t want to engage? They’re most likely not in your personal life and are just on a dating app if they don’t even know what you do.

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        14 days ago

        Why are so many commenters so comfortable pushing all responsibility onto the woman? Can you not imagine how draining it would be to have to engage like that with hundreds of milquetoast males every week