• kuhli@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      16 days ago

      No, this is genuinely correct. I guess if all you care about is getting laid it might be a detriment

      Being yourself is the only way anything will ever work out long term. A relationship started by pretending to be someone else isn’t sustainable. If being yourself doesn’t let you click with anyone at all, maybe go see a therapist and work on yourself.

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        15 days ago

        I mean, my lol was tongue in cheek. Of course, you should be genuine. But if you are genuinely a boring person, you should put effort into becoming a more interesting person. Then you can be both genuine and interesting.