• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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    10 days ago

    I used to be. But when I turned 30 I realized that I wasn’t properly sane until I was in my late 20s.

    We’ve figured out that brains don’t finish maturing until around 25. So to me, 21 is a compromise.

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      10 days ago

      I wasn’t properly sane until I was experienced. Ive seen sheltering make for stupid 30 year olds snd I’ve seen a 21 year old on her second kid who seemed to have it shockingly together. But I also come back to the stance of freedom for adults.