• Guy Dudeman@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    The MDHS State Disbursement Unit is the Child Support department. Dude went nuts because he doesn’t want to pay child support. What a POS.

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        8 months ago

        Yeah they are. But fun fact, garnishments and liens work just as well without an INTERNATIONAL TREATY and a surprising number of these loons still work and own stuff.

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          8 months ago

          Yes but they’re their own country, and the USA needs to form a treaty to have say in their business, unless they’re “travelling” or receiving welfare or benefit in some other way

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        8 months ago

        “I don’t have anything to do with that kid! Why should I have to pay child support?”

        Unfortunately I know people like that in real life, who don’t seem to understand that the child support is largely because they want nothing to do with their kid

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                Child support isn’t meant to punish a parent that’s no longer in the child’s life. Even if thats the end result, it’s meant to support the child.

                Because of the bodily autonomy argument there won’t be true equality surrounding pregnancy because nobody has (or should have) weight of decision of whether to carry the child except for the person who does so.

                But if a child is brought into the world as a result, it needs to be supported. And that’s the responsibility of the parents- willing or not.

                I think that if male birth control becomes safe and available it will be much closer to equality.

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                No, it should not. When two consenting adults have sex without protection, the resulting pregnancy shouldn’t be the sole problem of the woman.

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                  She is the only one granted the choice to end the responsibility. The father is left with massive financial responsibility for 18 years, that the mother had the choice to prevent. This even occurs in cases of rape.

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                    An abortion is a medical procedure that has a high risk for the woman, and carries with it the trauma of ending a human life.
                    Yes, she is the only one granted the choice to end it. Because “it” happens within her body.

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                8 months ago

                Your logic is fundamentally flawed. In several ways. I see several people arguing with you ineffectively because they assume you are arguing in good faith or have a coherent position… Neither of which I am convinced you possess.

                In the US (and most of the world) it is a fundamental right of bodily autonomy that any individual is not subjected to any forced medical situation in the support of another person’s life, regardless of that person’s age, gender or relationship with the other person. Even if we agreed on when personhood happens (I assume we disagree on it) at no point must one person give up their bodily rights for another. If you provide a special case for pregnancy then we are in a discussion of if your inconsistent belief structure is valid.

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                  Your logic is fundamentally flawed. In several ways. I see several people arguing with you ineffectively because they assume you are arguing in good faith or have a coherent position…

                  You’re free to disagree with me, but everything I say on here is in good faith.

                  In the US (and most of the world) it is a fundamental right of bodily autonomy that any individual is not subjected to any forced medical situation in the support of another person’s life, regardless of that person’s age, gender or relationship with the other person.

                  Yep, I agree.

                  Even if we agreed on when personhood happens (I assume we disagree on it) at no point must one person give up their bodily rights for another.

                  I have no strong opinion on when personhood happens, I simply don’t know.

                  If you provide a special case for pregnancy then we are in a discussion of if your inconsistent belief structure is valid.

                  A special case for what? You never expressed your disagreement with me.

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            If they were going to want the baby aborted, they shouldn’t have had sex without a condom. You don’t get to cum inside someone and then tell them what to do with it. Your jizz, your problem.

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            If they are forced to be pregnant with it, that’s their choice.

            Have you ever spent nine months with a pregnant woman? They don’t do it because it’s fun.