Got that itch again recently too and after looking through what’s currently popular decided to give EVE Online and Black Desert (on private server) a try
I like open world survival crafting games (loved Valheim) and prefer to play with others so am hoping these will work out
Also played some GW2 few months back for a while and I host a Minetest server for our kiddos where I dabble as well
I’ve spun up Gitea in my homelab as well as at work and don’t recall being difficult so perhaps they fixed whatever was causing your issue