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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • When they’re struggling to eat two meals a day and threatened with homelessness, they’ll work and job they’re given, no matter how awful.

    You think the parents of yesteryear wanted to send their kids off to the workhouses, when they knew an education would be better for them, and safer than the workshops?

    They didn’t have a choice, because that’s how their society was structured.

    The USA is regressing in many small ways that taken together gave a big impact, it’s not crazy to think that they’re reaching a point where many families will be forced to have their kids work to make ends meet.

    The kids aren’t privileged, they don’t have a choice, that’s the point. If they choose not to work because they’re moody teens, then they’ll starve. That won’t happen.






  • How do you accidentally sack someone?

    You have to specifically choose a person, presumably with an actual reason for sacking them, then reach out to them specifically to inform them of their sacking.

    In my country you also require a valid reason for doing so, you can’t just randomly sack someone, I imagine in this case it would be being made redundant.

    So, you decide your staff are no longer required and if their contract allows you to let them go (or you just pay the big severance or whatever), okay cool.

    Then you… change your mind? What?

    That’d be a deeply incompetent employer. Like, buffoon levels. I wouldn’t go back to working for someone like that. If nothing else, they’ve shown how little they care about their staff. Not worth it.







  • Any exercise is better than none :-)

    We all have varied, busy lives that never fit the neat structured exercise plans we read about, or make for ourselves. Sometimes we only find 15 minutes free in a day for some quick exercise. And if that’s the only time we have available that day, then that’s enough.

    Ideally you’ll find time for more structured exercise at least once a week, but don’t beat yourself up if you struggle with your schedule, you’re only human, just do what you can, that already puts you ahead of most people <3



  • It’s good to have a positive outlook, but it’s also important to be realistic, and know when to move your energies elsewhere, I think.

    I could set my mind to becoming a good orchestral composer, but all I’d be doing is wasting years of my life and a lot of money and effort, because I know I’m not at all creative in that way. My creative strengths lie elsewhere.

    I could stick with it, and become at best a very derivative boring composer, but I wouldn’t reach my dream or being a good one.

    And I’d miss out on other dreams I could have been following that were more realistic and would bring me more happiness in the end, you know?

    But yeah, you also have to weigh that against pushing yourself past your limits, because maybe you’ll be great at something you wouldn’t have expected!

    I think in the end as with most things in life, it’s about finding a balance between idealism and realism that works best for you :-)