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We have twins, they’re nearly 2.

IDK about the career angle. Would taking a year or 2 off in your thirties meaningfully effect your trajectory? You and your partner could alternate, you take a few years off, then he does. Or you could both go part time. Are there other ways you can stay connected to your industry? Additional study?

Statistically caring for a child may not be a good career move, but I suspect a large part of that is that having a child changes your priorities. Your career might take second place, not because it has to, but because you’re far more interested in hanging out with your kid.

Paying someone for help is a nice idea but it didn’t really work for us. We had 2x au pairs for a while, paid minders to help out on weekends et cetera. Here day care is heavily subsidised. They started that when they were about 15 months, 3 days a week. That has been a game changer obviously.

We’ve never done date night per se. We do family outings several times a week. We both make sure the other gets a few hours off every few days. I’m not saying this is “the right way”, some cracks in our relationship have definitely appeared and developed over the last several years. We just wake up every day and do whatever needs to be done.

I’m just not interested in Horses so I just can’t comment on that. I’m really into bikes though. I bought an epic e-bike powerful enough to haul my kids around in this trailer thing. They love it. I love it. It was financially reckless, cost about 9 weeks average wage, but I don’t regret the purchase. I will say though, you should talk to someone who has a horse and pays for all the things. For me the novelty would def wear off super quick.

The thing that I find striking about your post is the analysis. We didn’t analyse the decision to have kids. It was just something we wanted to do. We didn’t have answers for all the questions, or even bother to ask those questions, because literally every one of my ancestors has just gotten pregnant and figured the rest out day by day.

They’re not necessarily solely relying on other peoples opinions, just interested in other peoples perspectives.

There’s more to life than gaining money.

I agree that OP doesn’t seem that enthusiastic, but questioning whether or not you’re 100% on-board with having a child is something every parent should do.

Anything that’s wet all the time is going to grow mold or algae or whatever.

Whether you rinse or scrub, if you just shake off the drips or even towel it off before you fill it up again it’s going to get gross.

It needs to spend a significant amount of time completely dry.

The solution is to have 2 bottles and switch them every few days.

I remember I was maybe 8 years old and lucky enough to go out on my dad and uncle’s fishing boat. They were commercial fishermen, netting sardines.

I was so excited when dolphins showed up, only to discover that not everyone loves dolphins when my uncle got the shotgun out. He didn’t actually murder any dolphins that day but not for lack of trying.

Suffice to say, I think most fishermen have a healthy dislike for other predators.

Here’s an example usage from cambridge dictionary:

Is he a pretentious postmodern dilettante barely concealing his limitations behind mannered overwrought wordplay and the needless over-ornamentation of derivative rock songs and genre pastiches?

God I can’t wait to be able to send the kids to get a kebab or pizza.

They’re only 2 now. Another 13 years or so and they can go fetch things on their bikes or scooters I guess.

I’ve had pizza delivered by the guys who work for the store, but never a delivery service.

Yeah right. I guess if you process it so it’s just calcium or something rather than living tissue.

I don’t know the answer and I don’t know anything about how LLMs are tuned but I think the answer is probably partially yes.

My supposition is:

Instead of providing manual answers to specific questions, you modify the bot’s approach to answering different types of questions.

For example, if you ask “what color are bananas” the bot answers this by looking for discussions about the color of different fruits and selects the word that seems to be provided most often.

Alternatively, if you ask “what is two plus two”, when the bot parses the question it recognises that it’s a math question, so instead of looking for text discussions of math, it converts it to an equation and returns the solution.

Previously, I guess bots were answering the “how many r’s” question in the text based kind of way, and the fix made the bot interpret it in a more mechanical / mathematic kind of way.

It’s a pretty salient demonstration of a bot’s inability to reason. They’re good at making sentences, but they can only emulate reasoning.

I find this really hard to believe.

I’m sure that unauthorised organ harvesting has occurred in isolated circumstances.

But I’m incredulous that it could happen on an industrial scale.

I didn’t realise that this was a thing.

I guess your body just kind of tolerates bone for some reason? Usually for transplants you need meds to suppress your immune system forever.