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Cake day: August 10th, 2023

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  • You say “dating” but what are we even talking about here? Conversations on the internet?

    Anyways though we can’t say whether the guy is seriously sorry or not.

    Pretending to be in a relationship with someone he knew was 13 is majorly creepy and inappropriate. Why was he even pretending to be 14? Was this part of his broader internet personality or only in his messages to you?




  • Microw@lemm.eetoFediverse@lemmy.worldFediverse for teens
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    1 month ago

    Well because your original post was kinda misleading.

    There are multiple things you talk about:

    • “Ding-ding” notifications - well you can adjust notifications, to help with not developing an addiction

    • her group chat - do they want to move their friend group chat to a fedi platform? Or were you just clumsily wording?

    • family fedi server - that is what you are talking about now, and it’s a completely different thing. You could set up a closed-registration mastodon or vernissage instance for that, but tbh I wouldnt recommend using any ActivityPub software for the purpose of sharing private photos and messages with your family. Because there is always the danger of that data federating to all kinds of servers…