It’s not like i took it but i understand that other’s confidence can be a bummer for your own.
I try to do and say what is fair and right but also get constantly backlash for it. Ignore it. If you know what’s good and right, never do the opposite. Don’t pay too much attention to the noise
Wash bedclothes separately at at least 60°C. Germs die and salt and fat will dissolve. No folding, because who cares it won’t make a difference after 1 night. And yeah what elbow said, pull the fittet sheets as far as possible over the mattress. The rubber ring should be as small as possible on the backside. The sewn corners on the bed sheet should rest on the mattress’ corners that are on the underside, or even being stretched further