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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • I caused a minor diplomatic incident between the development organisations of the Netherlands and Germany in a small African country.

    I was working for the Dutch organisation as an intern. There was a little get together of the organisations at a local bar. When introductions were made I used a WW2 term to describe our boss. I said ‘this is our ubersturmbahnfuhrer’.

    This was not the right thing to say, as the leader of the German team was an ex-east German and staunch antifascist with little sense for my perceived ‘humor’. He felt personally insulted by being compared thusly and I had to shamefully go down to their offices and profusely apologize.













  • Wist i do agree the particular stereotype is a bit scathing, I think it is withheld discussing bodily insecurities.

    I do think it’s more diverse in women as the don’t focus on this one aspect, in disregard for about everything, which is often the male problem.

    Posturing and peacocking is however important. I think that a lot is body related with indieners paddling makeup, fillers and stuff like that.

    Aside from that there’s not a simple set of items that define ‘the successful woman’ like expensive watches, fast cars ed. are for men.

    But for most (and both sexes) the appearance of a successful relationship, a beautiful home, holidays and activities in line with their life philosophy seem prevalent in social media.

    The appearance being the operative word, as it’s often more important than reality.