Dusty old bones, full of green dust.

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Cake day: June 2nd, 2024

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  • Yes. I studied and have a degree in animation. I wanted to work in animation, specifically as a story board and background artist. However, I’m talentless. I attempted graphic design work, but my first gig was with Lisa Frank, and that didn’t go well. I searched for more design work and I could only find work in customer service. After a year of portfolio work, applications, etc., I had to accept I just don’t have talent and I wasted my money. My goal was to avoid my current job because all I heard growing up was how awful it was. I studied hard, graduated with honors and everything. Still a talentless dumbass who now works in insurance. I will likely stay in this career (insurance) until I die.



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    13 days ago

    I only liked it because I was off. Otherwise, I’ve always hated summer. I used to dream of having a fall or winter vacation instead. I didn’t have AC at home or at school growing up, so if I was going to be uncomfortable, just let me go back. I want to go to the zoo on a nice fall afternoon, not the second coming of Satan’s asshole.


  • My friend wants to play games with me last weekend, but I completely forgot. It’s something she wanted to do for her birthday since we’re states apart and our schedules are weird. She said she’s fine, but I can tell I disappointed her by missing such a simple request and I feel absolutely terrible.

    However, it was a wake up call. I’ve been very lethargic and tired, but I just kind of ignored it, but it’s now affecting my friendship, so I’m going to try to make some changes to help with my energy. I don’t want to disappoint her again if I can help it.







  • Someone already wrote a really good answer, but using the money to help fund programs would be a start. Maybe make a safe place where they can hang out that doesn’t offend you (not you specifically, just in general). If possible, I would even try and talk with them, become neighbors instead of enimies. While tackling homelessness would take a system wide change, I think sometimes just not adding to the problem and shame is the best we can do.

    And I get it, I’ve had homeless people scream at me, see them urinate outside, not everything humans do is pleasant, and I also wouldn’t want all of that right in front of my business. But, at least in this example, there is a ton of empty space, the building itself is mostly empty. Come together and make the rest of the unused property a shelter. That parking lot behind them alone was gigantic and I don’t think I saw any cars there, why not let them have part of the parking lot? It just seems easier to be kind and try to work with them than set up a sound system to keep the entire neighborhood up.



  • I hate this time line. All the advancements just to make life worse. I saw an article yesterday of a European country looking to raise the retirement age since people live longer. Even at work I have a program that monitors me to the second, and can tell if I’m clicking, typing, or “just moving the mouse.” WFH can mean being on call 24/7. Any advice is always how to make do, or downsize. Which isn’t bad in itself, but it’s to “cope” with oligarchs wringing us dry for every second of time, and any money we happen to have. As things get “better”, they just manage to make it worse. It’s like the mere idea of a employee being treated like a human being and not their ID never is blasphemy. We have kids in factories and fast food jobs. This is ridiculous, and cruel. We should all be working less.




  • I’ve never even dated someone, but I’ve walked with male friends and had someone shout out he was taking one for the team and thanking him for his service. I’ve also had someone say loudly that they would be embarrassed to be seen with someone like me (fat and ugly). I’ve had someone stop him and ask if he knew “it” was following him (We were in different sections of a store while I was approaching). I’ve had people say he must be rich to keep “something like me” fed. I’ve had friends called “pig fucker” while walking with me. I’ve had people, when they thought I couldn’t hear, praise him for seeing “what’s inside.” I’ve had people insinuate that I must be good in bed for anyone to want me. I’ve been called practice. I have had someone loudly exclaim that “damn, if that’s all that’s left I’d just be gay.”

    So, not a “relationship,” but friendship. Sorry if that’s vending the rules a bit.



  • When he attempted to reverse search the image, he didn’t find any matches which lead him to believe this is a real photo from the person he’s chatting with and not a joke or something like that. There are two assumptions (based on this thread anyway, order has no bearings on which one is more “true” or not).

    1. (My assumption) He is disappointed because the girl is fat/hairy and therefore unattractive and unworthy of his affection.

    2. He is disappointed because the hairy leg makes him think his “girlfriend” is his “boyfriend,” otherwise known as a catfish, and he is feeling tricked/embarrassed/hurt/etc.

    My knee jerk assumption was weight. When I encounter posts with fat people, I’m used to people responding in revulsion so I took that train of thought.