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minus-squareNythos@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up7·edit-219 days agoI was 17 years old and at work when a woman called me eye candy and said “but I’ll leave you alone, I’m not that much of a cougar” I have had my arse smacked and grabbed, as have my brothers. I have had women not understand that I was uncomfortable about the comments they were making about me, to me even when told. I have had a woman say to me suggestively “I’m sure you could make some more up” and wink when I told her that we didn’t have any cream. Problematic behaviour isn’t something that is exclusive to one gender because women can be pretty fucking disgusting with their behaviour too.
minus-squareDruid@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down4·19 days agoI hear you. Thanks for sharing and I’m sorry to hear you were treated that way. I wasn’t trying to discredit anyone’s experiences with my comment
minus-squareZeroOne@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up6·edit-218 days agoYes you were. You are in damage-control mode
I was 17 years old and at work when a woman called me eye candy and said “but I’ll leave you alone, I’m not that much of a cougar”
I have had my arse smacked and grabbed, as have my brothers.
I have had women not understand that I was uncomfortable about the comments they were making about me, to me even when told.
I have had a woman say to me suggestively “I’m sure you could make some more up” and wink when I told her that we didn’t have any cream.
Problematic behaviour isn’t something that is exclusive to one gender because women can be pretty fucking disgusting with their behaviour too.
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I hear you. Thanks for sharing and I’m sorry to hear you were treated that way. I wasn’t trying to discredit anyone’s experiences with my comment
Yes you were. You are in damage-control mode