I live at an international dormitory with other international students, here in Japan. I met a guy two years ago and we were good friends ever since, he is japanese and I am Indian. I live in an international students dormitory so I introduced all of my friends to him and we all became good friends. It was usually only me who invited him for any plans even if he was connected to others through social media. He became my boyfriend after some time.

Now one of another Indian guy in my friend group is extremely misogynistic and is only nice to women he wants to sleep with. Needless to say he was not nice to me, would expect me to cater to the Japanese girls he’s bringing to the dormitory and then act entitled. I told him I am not going to put up with this behavior, so he started to cut me off from plans ( he used to make so many plans) because he doesn’t take his PhD seriously. When I noticed that he started to cut me off from plans, I just simply stopped talking to him.

This guy had a habit of befriending people who have cars, even pretended to be in love with a girl who has a car just so he could travel around. (This is important information for the story) My Japanese ex boyfriend also had a car but it was usually us going around alone.

Eventually we broke up because of a lot of communication gap but decided to stay friends. He made a new girlfriend one month ago and I decided to minimize my conversation with him although I was still very much in love with him.

Now this Indian guy, suddenly started becoming close to my Japanese ex boyfriend because he has a car and the girl he pretended to be in a relationship with because of her car, dumped him. He started inviting him to the dormitory. And my Japanese ex boyfriend started bringing his new girlfriend with him. I wouldn’t have had any problem with it but my relationship with my Japanese ex boyfriend became very bad when I found out that he voted for a political party that is same as MAGA and wants to take away foreigners rights. He actually told me he wants to remove Chinese people from Japan but when he comes to my dormitory, he pretends to be their best buddy.

I requested my Indian friend multiple times not to invite him, so he kept telling me that it’s a free world and we can do whatever we want (even though he got uncomfortable when I mentioned I would invite his ex girlfriend with a new boyfriend next). I gave him a warning and when he didn’t listen, I told his ex the entire story of him cheating on her and then playing victim and calling her crazy when she opened up to their other mutual friends.

I also texted my ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend and asked her to stop coming over to my place because I am moving out in two months. And then they can come whenever they want. Whenever they both come here, I feel uncomfortable and stop spending time with the same friends I introduced them to. I even told her that if they both Don’t go to her ex-boyfriends place why do.they come to mine especially when I have already requested them multiple times to stop doing it.

Also if he hates foreigners so much and take away their rights, why should he hangout with us? I have not told my friends what he said about the topic to me.

So AITAH in this situation?