I recently got banned from a dating subreddit and discord for people over 30 and all the admins will say is that I made some people uncomfortable. I’ve been trying to figure out what I did that could have upset people and the one 2 things I can think of was one incident when somebody mentioned I should try dating another male member of the discord server since we had so much in comment and I jokingly explained that I could never date another man because I don’t like the sight of my own genitals so I doubt I would want to see or touch another man’s. That seemed to spark some controversy with some members because I brought up genitalia. I get that I probably could have said it in a classier way, but in a server for people over 30 looking to date, I would assume this wouldn’t exactly be taboo or warrant a ban.

      • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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        3 months ago

        Well, you did attract me to respond, soooo…

        But damn, I know exactly what you mean. I can be at the grocery store and all of a sudden I’m hearing about the ananaki or whatever it is, and how the aliens and pyramids are some kind of radio telescope thing.

        Like, I ain’t mad about it, I just don’t know how they can tell I’m the sort that will listen and not judge before they launch into whatever it is

        • The0utc4st@sh.itjust.worksOP
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          3 months ago

          I’ve had like 5 customers try to correct me on the spelling and/or pronunciation of my name… Like my own freaking name… How stupid would I have to be not to know how to spell or pronounce my own name?

          • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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            3 months ago

            Oh, holy hell, that’s absurd.

            I’m trying not to laugh because it has to really grind after the first few times, but damn. I’ve said it a lot lately, but people be trippin