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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • Hahaha you should see the outage map of Washington State.

    What do I like to do? Nothing, I hate power outages.

    What I typically do is I have a large stockpile of candles from an old MLM scheme. I light those and play on my phone if there’s Internet. We have multiple battery banks for these occasions.

    If there’s no Internet I will read. Both ebooks and regular books because my attention will shift.

    I also try to do something productive like study for something.

    Most of all I pile like eleventy billion blankets on the bed because I’m so cold. The furry ones are poor space heaters.

    When I was a kid we always played games. Like charades or something. My dad would light the camp stove and we’d entertain ourselves for the evening as a family. They were nice.






  • Yeah … I’m sorry. It doesn’t get any easier. Over time you get beaten down and don’t have the luxury of putting energy into being angry about it. Like, your rage is on a low simmer on the back burner.

    Men are blissfully unaware of what pain they cause and what privilege they enjoy and anytime you try to bring up women’s issues they scream “not all men”. Because yes it isn’t all men but we’re not talking about those men in the first place.

    Talking about it here is likely to gain negative attention so I understand you’re venting but they’re not going to listen. It’s not impacting anyone. And it’s dangerous because while Lemmy is safer than reddit, you could still piss off the wrong person who might go after you. I’m sorry. There’s very little justice.

    I hear and acknowledge your pain.





  • The plan was we were all going to meet at the mall and see a movie, then spend the night at Jennifer’s house. Jennifer, two other friends, and me. Well, I was also friends with Becky and wanted her to come to just the movie part, which she was fine with.

    So I tell Jennifer, and even though she barely knows Becky, she flips out and says she can’t come to MY birthday. I got upset and started pushing back but then she uninvited me to my own birthday party.

    They had the whole thing without me. Movie, slumber party, cake, presents, whole 9 yards. I spent the whole thing alone in my room. My neglectful parents didn’t even do anything for me.

    28 years later and it still hurts.




  • We’ve used kwikset dumb locks (no app) and never had one fail. We only had to change the batteries once and that was because I was paranoid that it had been 3 years, not because the batteries were dying. When it fails it is supposed to fail “locked” but again, we’ve never had it fail. We did discover to use the good name brand batteries though.

    Don’t get me wrong, we still have keys just in case, but holy crap the freedom of mind is great. My partner has severe anxiety and used to check the locks 6+ times a day but it auto locks now and they don’t have to worry about it. I think they only check now before bed.